34 Anal Sex Products That Make An Immediate Difference

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If you want to love anal sex (or just make it loads better), check out this round-up of lubes, plugs, toys, and other essentials.

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Here's the breakdown of the Snug Plug sizes: the smallest size (snug plug 1) is 54 g, 0.88 inches wide and 3.4 inches long (insertable) and the largest (snug plug 7) is 1.32 lbs, 2.5 inches wide and 6.85 inches long (insertable).

Promising review: "I have tried a lot of plugs and this one is the best so far. I'm not into trying to stretch myself or anything like that, but I am a little more experienced and I wanted something that would stay in and let me feel it while still being able to use it all day. I got a #3 and when it arrived I thought it looked a little bigger than I expected. After using it for several days, it is perfect! Just the right size. The shape is ideal both for insertion and for staying in place until I am ready to remove it. The weighted interior balls do not provide as much stimulation as I had hoped, but they do provide just enough weight to be a reminder. So, in summary, a great plug!" —Imperfectionist

Get it from B-Vibe for $49.99+ (available in seven sizes and assorted colors) or Amazon for $45+ (available in size 1, size 2, size 3, and size 4).

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

Promising reviews: "I wish I could explain in detail how amazing this product is. You will NEVER buy a different lube after this. All the others I’ve tried before this one were horrible. I will never use another now. Anything you stick in your bum with this lube is gonna feel AMAZING. Buy it!!" —Rebecca De La Fuente

"Great for backdoor play. Anyone that enjoys backdoor play with their partner will enjoy this product. A little goes a loonnngggg way and it last until you wash it off. Makes penetration so easy and smooth and minimizes the discomfort of insertion to almost zero. My wife loves this product and says 'It's a must for anal play'!" —Dexter Blakely

Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

Don't forget that a general rule of thumb is to avoid using silicone sex toys with silicone-based lubricant, because it will degrade the material over time. If you're going to play with your fave silicone toy, make sure a water-based or hybrid lube is also in your cart and/or collection!

Promising reviews: "What can I say? Does what it's supposed to do. My go-to lube for anal. Makes things go smoothly without a greasy after feeling. Washes off easily with water." —collapsedworm

"My boyfriend and I love this lube. This lube can be a little messy but it works! I love it because I can slide right into my boyfriend without any issues. He loves it because he can do his thing without any issues. Depending on the day, the lube can last longer than me. I highly recommend especially if you plan to do anal. Enjoy!" —ManlyMan

Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in assorted sizes).

Emily Morse, PhD, sexologist and host of the radio show and podcast Sex with Emily has previously told BuzzFeed that for enemas like this for anal sex, you don't actually need to use the chemical laxative. Instead, you can buy disposable kits like this one and pour out the included solution, rinse the bottle several times, and simply add warm water (skip the cold, it can cause cramping) before following the included instructions. Rinse a few times prior to anal sex, using fresh warm water each time, and boom, let the fun begin!

Promising review: "It does all the things you’d imagine it would do. It works, and I’m thankful for the product. My sex life wouldn’t be the same without it." —Lust

Get it from Amazon for $4.10+ (available in single or two-pack).

Promising reviews: "With proper use, works perfect. It's an anal douche. That is its purpose. Use it in the correct way and it works. I've used mine a number of times. Still in good condition, should last a few years. Don't damage it, don't cut it, and it will work as it should." —S. Sherman

"It's really easy to use, been using it for a couple of months now and all douches are hard to fill (I read complaints in other reviews) you gotta use the suction to fill it faster! Blow all the air and suck the water in, if you wait for it to get filled by just setting it under the water flow, obviously it's going to take forever... Nice material and no funny smells so far. The tip feels nice and doesn't bother at all, be gentle with your hole people!" —Elvis Aref Quintero

Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

Each box includes 10 individually wrapped wipes, making them perfect for taking on the go!

Promising reviews: "These wipes are great if you need a quick non-shower shower and they smell fantastic. They are individually wrapped so they’re great for travel as well." —rachael barber

"Great for freshening yourself up on a sweaty day! They have a light scent so nothing overpowering. Convenient to go size to slip into your bag and go!" —Shy

Get it from Amazon for $9.98 (currently only available in lavender).

The smallest plug is just under 3 inches (2.99) and the largest is 4.37 inches long, making the range a great option for anyone who's new to anal or an expert.

Promising reviews: "Bought this as a present for my partner who’s trans NB. I chose the M size. I love the texture and the shape. Putting pressure on the base produced very good results." —Rose

"I feel completely secure in making the following statement: the Fun Factory Bootie is one of the best butt plugs out there." —Hey E.S.T.R.

Get it from Fun Factory for $34.99+ or Amazon for $35+ (available in black or purple and three sizes).

The smallest dildo is 5-inches long (3.75-inches insertable) and 0.75-inches wide. The medium dildo is 6-inches long (4.5-inches insertable) and 1-inch wide, and the largest is 7-inches long (6-inches insertable) and 1.5-inches wide. Plus, each dildo is strap-on compatible thanks to its adorable heart-shaped base!

I got this kit for my partner who was interested in exploring anal play, but had never used toys before. After moving up from a finger, we began using the smallest dildo — and he loved it! The twisted design holds lube really well and makes it easy to move the dildo without having to constantly reapply. Plus, it offers a little more stimulation that's different from a classic "come hither" motion. The heart-shaped base definitely helped keep things safe and is great for holding and maneuvering the dildo. Not to mention, it's just really really pleasing to look at as the giver in this situation. 😍 The dildos also have a slight curve to them, which offers targeted stimulation to the P- (or G) spot!

Promising review: "I love the soft feeling of these. And they are the perfect size to start out my journey. The heart base is really cute and a nice touch. I haven't used them in a strapon yet, but they do fit securely in the harness I have. I have also gotten compliments on their sleek look. Just an all around good set." —Nikki

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $39.99, Babeland for $47.60 (originally $56) or Amazon for $41.99.

Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.

With 3.5 inches of insertable length and a width of 1.25 inches, this sleek plug was designed to satisfy.

Promising reviews: "I really like this prostate stimulator. Easy to clean. Slides in easily...don't be fooled by the large head. Weight is the only drawback...you have to work to keep it in...I'm looking at it as some good butt exercise." —D. William Penn

"If you have a prostate, you owe it to yourself to own one of these, but be warned, once you learn to use it properly you won't want to be without it, it's absolutely sensational and extremely habit forming." —Native Son

Get it from Amazon for $65.55.

The XS plug measures 2.75 inches long and 1.3 inches wide at its max; and the XL plug is 5.75 inches long and 2.7 inches at its widest point.

Promising reviews: "This was my first 'luxury' toy purchase for my rear. I’ve had several other butt plugs, but none have compared to these. I’m not a pro but knew I could handle at least the small, so that’s what I went with. I’ll admit I was intimidated at first. I warmed up slightly and found this was much easier to get in than a traditional tapered plug. I love the squish, and it sits perfectly between my cheeks. The only thing I’m sad about is I’m too shy to tell people I know how great these are. Thanks for making a great product and allowing Peep Show Toys to sell it!" —Derek

"I'm definitely pleased with this sparkly blue butt plug (medium size). Despite the blunt shape and substantial dimensions, it's easier to insert than I expected. Once inserted, the shape and softness are very comfortable and provide a nice full feeling. This butt plug stays in place easily, the base is quite comfortable between the cheeks, and the silicone has just enough firmness to provide some pleasant prostate stimulation. I've found a new favorite in the Ergo Soft Blueballs Silicone Butt Plug." —J.

Get it from Peepshow Toys for $36.99+ (available in five sizes).

This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.

"We typically use a regular pillow for a few things (raising up in missionary mostly) but we’ve never used a wedge shape. It was good but maybe a little harder/more firm than we expected it to be? We used it for a few different positions (oral, vaginal and anal sex). It improved most of them." —{Product tester}_Will

Get it from Dame for $95.

It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.

Promising reviews: "Awesome product. The flip capability opens up possibilities. The Liberator website has some suggestions of use, but with some creativity there are many others. This paired with the wedge and axis have had plenty of fun results. Highly recommend. Does clean very easy. The cloth outside does attract dog hair, but vacuums off easily enough." —J.B.

"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley

Get it from Amazon $171.74+ (available in three colors).

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BTW this is from BuzzFeed's Goodful Wellness collection! This plug is designed for anal use, waterproof, and created with body-safe silicone, so we recommend using a hybrid lubricant for anal play.

Get it from Hustler Hollywood or Goodful Wellness for $20.

Promising reviews: "Wow! This product blew my mind! It is PERFECT for anal intercourse. I typically use silicone-based lube, but the cleanup is a disaster. This lube was not only a better quality than silicone lube, but the cleanup was a breeze. I have been disappointed many times by lube but this was definitely not one of them. We didn’t need to reapply a lot like with other water-based lubes and it doesn’t dry and get all sticky. I will be a lifelong customer. Buy this lube!" —Kassidy Singh

"This stuff is great for anal sex and easy to clean off, it has no flavor according to my gf and has no scent either." —Joshua Janey

Get it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in 8-oz and 32-oz sizes).

BTW, silicone-based lubes are not designed to be used with silicone sex toys! If you're going to be playing with toys, make sure to grab a water-based option as well!

For those who need it, there is a gallon-sized option.

Promising reviews: "This is a great product and is more economical than some of the premium lubes out there. It stays slick for a long time and feels silky but you are also able to feel the friction that is required for this type of personal contact. It's great either by yourself or with a partner! Of course, any silicone lube is not so easy to clean up, but this one washes off of my hands well with a little soap and water." —Michael

"The wife and I use this almost exclusively when we break out the lube because it doesn’t dry up and get sticky. I wouldn’t recommend using in the shower. Turns the tub into a slip n slide. Washing it off is kind of a chore, but not bad." —Evan B

Get it from Amazon for $17.60+ (available in assorted sizes).

This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.

Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99.

B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

Promising review: "A lot more comfortable than I expected. They have a perfect weight to them that I love as well. A great training kit for beginners like me (I've only made it up to the medium so far) that aren't sure if plugs are something they will like or not. If you are interested long term wear I can say they have done a great job for me but I can understand that the hard unforgiving metal may not be for everyone. They will 'sit' different in every individual but I can honestly say I was pleased with how well they fit me." —Danielle Godwin

Get it from Amazon for $15.85+ (available in 14 colors).

BTW, the plug has a tulip-inspired bulb shape to tilt towards the wearer's G-spot and help "guide" their lover's penis or dildo in that pleasurable direction.

Promising review: "It has been my first anal toy and it has been wonderful! I have used it with my partner and it has been one of the most pleasurable experiences I remember. Perfect size, the only issue is the two tips that make insertion a little difficult." —Irati

Get it from Fun Factory or Amazon for $45 (available in light and dark purple).

Promising reviews: "My hands are on the larger side, but not enormous. These are fairly tight on my index finger...it's probably OK for most applications, but if you're going to be wearing these for a longer time (*cough* butt stuff) and you have large hands, be aware that your finger will start getting numb after 10–15 minutes." —Steve

"Great for stimulating the G-Spot :) Wife approved. ✅️" —Coffin Closet

Get it from Amazon for $5.99+ (available in two colors and several sizes).

Get a pack of 50 from B-Vibe for $6.99 (originally $9.99).

Promising reviews: "Feels amazing going in and even better once it’s turned on, the vibrations are enough to hit that special spot and leave you begging for more!" —Anonymous

"If you’re looking for a product to send shockwaves through your body, this is it! This toy will keep you excited and pleasured for hours. Try it with your partner or enjoy it by yourself. You will not be disappointed!" —Jerome Monegan

Get it from Amazon for $19.99 (available in three colors).

This creamy lube is created with palm butter, grape-seed oil, and vitamin E for a moisturizing and velvety feel wherever it's applied.

Promising reviews: "This lube has quickly become my favorite for butt-er activities. Both my husband and I absolutely love this lube. Easy clean up and zero negative reactions with our bodies. Definitely worth the money imo! ❤❤❤👍🏾" —Q.Trek

"I love this lube! I have a couple other lubes that are ok, but are nothing compared to this. It has made dipping my toe into anal so easy. Also makes vaginal play even more pleasant. I now reach for this when its alone time." —Maysa H.

Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $3+ (available in six sizes) or B-Vibe for $19.99.

The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and Queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.

Even better, it's glycerin-, paraben-, gluten-, and fragrance-free!

Promising review: "Excellent thickness, not very slippery, almost no reapplication needed. Makes toys and sex a breeze." —Kyra

Get it from Amazon for $8.04+.

And not to sound like a broken record, but silicone-based lube ≠ silicone sex toys — make sure to only use water-based or hybrid lubricants if you plan on getting freaky with a silicone product!

Promising reviews: "Do you or someone you know suffer from terrible booty play? Stop what you're doing and buy this immediately. This is a game changer. I use to hate it, now I want it all the time. Do yourself a favor and Analyse yourself, or your loved one, or the person you're just having a casual thing with. Do it." —Smash

"Truly a game changer! Long lasting. It is worth every penny. I’d definitely say this lube is the best I have ever tried for backdoor play. A repeat buy for me. You won’t be disappointed." —C. Sloan

Get it from Amazon for $24.75.

Promising reviews: "It looks and feels amazing. It feels like the real thing. I also like the fact that it bends to your body to hit the right spots. The best dildo I’ve bought so far." —Robbie

"This dildo is AMAZING. I just used it on my partner and had to rush here to write a review because it was just such a pleasure to use. She loved the big head, and I loved how it kept its position. My partner has a big butt so we’ve always chosen lengthier dildos, but sometimes, that loses girth, and I can’t have the amount of push behind my thrusts like I would like, but this one was a great length AND girthy enough to translate some good fill. It is soooooo worth the money. This is our first NYTC dildo, but it will never be the last. I love that the company has handmade products made by the queer fam. Nobody gets our bodies like we do, and this product showed that for sure. I can’t wait to receive it! Thank you so much for doing you and making this amazing dildo!" —Armand Goldman

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $179 (available in eight colors).

The one pictured on the left has a lot of reviews and is the D3 Summer Fling dildo ($61.99 on Amazon), boasting an 8" length (7" insertable) and 1.75" width. There are five various dildos in the line, each one with a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. If you want more specifics on why I think these dildos are so perfect, check out my review on the Purple Rain D2 Avant dildo.

Here are the specific widths of the dildos in this collection: D1 Hot 'N' Cool (1.5 inches), D4 Sexy in Pink (1.5 inches), D5 Sin City (1.75 inches), D6 Electra (1.75 inches), D2 (1.5 inches).

Promising review: "Yes, it’s a little big. But it feels amazing and smooth. Anal has been nothing but great." —D. Cookie

Get it from Amazon for $58.99+ (available in assorted colors and sizes).

This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.

Promising reviews: "This is my favorite harness! I have had two myself and bought a couple for partners over the years. This is my go to and the only harness I ever recommend." —wordsspitout

"Bought for my girlfriend to wear for pegging. Looks great. Fits her great. Good quality material. Well worth the money." —Sarge

Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).

These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!

Promising review: "Rodeoh boxers are possibly one of the best inventions for a lesbian couple. They are just 'normal' high quality boxers that my wife wears under normal clothing and within seconds we can be 'playing!' None of the faffing about with silly harnesses, it’s just simply put on and put in!" —S&V

"I am a bisexual female, and my boyfriend happens to be a bisexual male. Rodeoh opened a whole new world for us. Strap-ons have been very awkward and uncomfortable for me, which took away from the experience. This morning we were finally able to make love in an entirely new way. I feel in love with my sexy bottom boy all over again, and then all we had to do was slide them on and start round two. Thank you so much for such an awesome product!" —Carmen

Get the banana print from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes M–3X).

Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.

This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.

Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews

"My fiancé got this for me and let me just say…. This makes the world of difference in comfort, and pleasure. Jokes aside, I’ve never had a punani tsunami from pegging until this thing. Worth the buy. No sore spots and everyone wobbles away happy. 😉" —melissa mitchell

Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).

This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation.

Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.

Get it from Ohnut for $75.

Ohnut Co. is a woman-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.

Just FYI, this dildo is created with TPE, which is a plastic-like form of rubber. TPE is not a body-safe material (like silicone or metal) and will degrade over time with use. A couple of ways you can make this dildo last longer is to use a condom during play and only use water-based lubricant.

Promising reviews: "OMG, this felt sooo good! I just started getting into anal, and this toy made it so much better. It's VERY good for beginners and was just all around amazing. I've had it for five months now, and I'm very happy with my purchase. :3" —fletcher

"This right here... I wish they had a 100. 🌟 🤩 I love it! Easy to use, and it works in an amazing way! You can put it anywhere you want. I think I'm in love!!!!" —Ermilande P.

Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

Promising reviews: "I bought this for my wife and I to share at the same time. The knobs for my ass and the other end for her G Spot. However, I use it mostly to massage and milk my prostate. It's not overly large and slides in me with ease and because it doesn't bend, I can easily put as much pressure on my prostate as I desire. It has me dripping prostate milk with great pleasure. I love the smoothness and how the 'knobs; POP in and out. I never have an anal play session without having this wand nearby. I even taught my sphincter to move the wand in and out without using my hand. Love this toy!" —Burrski

"I have a very tight backside. I wanted to get opened up so my wife could have me. Now I can enjoy anal so much more." —Seen Enough Failure

Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (originally $17.99).

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Promising reviews: "If you're into anal play then b-Vibe is the brand for you! Cinco adds two more beads to their original Triplet Anal beads, lending itself to deeper play. The vibration also provides added stimulation and slightly easier use for those who are still beginning and looking to ease into anal penetration." —Emma McGowan

"I love this toy! The vibration patterns are quite varied, it isn't very loud, it's waterproof and easy to charge, and it feels amazing, from the first insertion of the first bead to the teasing of inserting and removing of the next beads, until it is all the way in and driving me crazy! The orgasms I get from having this inside me while masturbating are always fantastic. I have yet to even ask my partner to use this on me, she doesn't even use toys herself, but I long to have this toy in me during receiving oral or having penetrative sex." —Mark

Get it from B-Vibe for $119 (originally $170) or Amazon for $150.56.

This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.

Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson

Get it from B-Vibe for $111.99 (available in black and blue).

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